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To Have or Not to Have Kids at your Wedding

Updated: Oct 16


Many couples may wonder whether or not to invite children to their wedding. While some couples may prefer an adult-only affair, others may embrace the energy and joy children can bring to the celebration. Here are some best practices and ideas for including kids in your wedding:


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Inviting Children

When deciding whether to invite children to your wedding, consider the atmosphere you want to create and the experience you envision for your guests. If you choose to include kids, ensuring they feel welcomed and entertained is important. You might consider setting up a designated children's area with fun activities like arts and crafts, games, or even a movie corner to keep them engaged during the event. Also, could you consider incorporating kid-friendly menu options to cater to younger tastes? Communicating your plans clearly on the invitations can help set expectations, whether inviting children or specifying an adult-only celebration.


Designate a Kid's Area

Creating a dedicated kid's area at your wedding can greatly enhance the experience for both children and their parents. This space should be safe, accessible, and filled with engaging activities that cater to various age groups. You might consider using colorful decorations and comfortable seating to make the area inviting. Popular options for activities include crafting stations, outdoor games, or even a small petting zoo, depending on your venue. You might also want to include a quiet zone with books and puzzles for kids who may need a break from the festivities. Hiring a babysitter or two can provide additional peace of mind for parents, allowing adults to enjoy the celebration while the little ones are entertained and supervised. Communicating the features of the kid's area on your invitations can also encourage families to feel included and excited to be a part of your special day.


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Involve Them in the Ceremony

Involving children in your wedding ceremony can add a joyful and heartfelt touch, making them feel like valued participants. Consider allowing them to play roles such as flower girls, ring bearers, or even ushers to help guide guests to their seats. You might also include a special moment in the ceremony where children can participate, such as lighting a unity candle or reading a short poem. This inclusion not only fosters a sense of belonging but also creates lasting memories for both the kids and the adults. Be sure to communicate these roles clearly to the children beforehand so they understand their importance and can participate with enthusiasm. Making them feel included in such a significant event will not only strengthen family bonds but also deepen their connection to the celebration.


Entertainment Options

When planning the entertainment for your wedding, consider activities that will engage both children and adults, creating a fun and inclusive atmosphere. Interactive options like a photo booth with props, games that appeal to various age groups, or live performers, such as musicians or magicians, can keep guests entertained throughout the event. For a more relaxed vibe, setting up a family game area with board games or giant outdoor versions of classic games can provide leisurely entertainment. Consider hiring face painters or balloon artists to capture the children's imagination. Thoughtfully curating entertainment options ensures that all guests are entertained and contributes to a joyful and memorable day.


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Personalized Favors Just for Kids

Creating personalized favors for children at your wedding adds a delightful touch that they will surely appreciate. Consider small, age-appropriate bags filled with fun treasures like custom coloring books, crayons, or activity kits that reflect the theme of your wedding. You might also include personalized items such as mini name tags or tags with each child’s name and a thank-you note, making them feel special and valued. Treats like cookies or candy bags with personalized labels can also be a hit. By tailoring these favors to the interests and ages of the children in attendance, you not only enhance their experience but also create lasting mementos of your special day.


By thoughtfully including children in your wedding plans, you can create a warm and inviting atmosphere that celebrates family bonds and shared joy.



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Cornerstone Ranch
Cornerstone Ranch
Oct 30

We have been seeing the trend of couples not inviting kids to their weddings/receptions. It's really up to the couple, but many are choosing to have an adults only event.

Thanks for the support!


Ally

www.cornerstoneranchevents.com

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